Those kids who have not perfect lives think that something went wrong with them. Because kid’s perceptions are not the same as adults. Parents can help their kids to deal with their fears by listening to their views and concerns about their feelings. Parents should ask open-ended questions and having meaningful conversations so that they can easily find the root of their children’s worries. If parents feel that they are not helping their child then they must seek out a professional’s advice. Encourage your kids to draw or write their feelings, sing songs and play some interesting games.
Help your kids to see the reality that school brings happiness and success in their lives. Parents should follow these ways to alleviate their child’s school worries:
Make transitions early: Expose kids early to changes so they can adapt better during transitions. It makes easier for children to go to school at younger ages. Preschool is a good way to encourage change and gets used to school. The parents give advice to their kids on how to interact with the teacher and send their kids to kindergarten.
Have a discussion: Parents often try to reassure their children, but sometimes these reassurances do nothing. It may help a nervous child. When they start to worry, use it as an opportunity to talk maximum with them and find out what is making them anxious. Share your experience with your kids and make a child more comfortable with school.
Involve children in activities: Parents can help their kids to reduce school stress by engaging them in interesting activities or events prior to school. These activities include sports, music, lessons or clubs and they will help them to build confidence or make friends. It makes much easier to walk into school on the first day with someone by your side then walking alone. It helps to reduce the pressure and nervousness.
Stay positive: Parents need to stay positive because children follow their parents. Let’s talk with kids about how much fun school will be and all the new friends they will meet. If a child has an older sibling in the school, then talk sibling to share their views about recess and all the fun that is had during the school day. If parents show fear or anxiety their children will pick up on this and become afraid and nervous.
Get enough sleep: Parents should help calm their children by encouraging them to get enough sleep and getting them back on a school schedule well before the start of school. Going to school is very difficult for new kids and it creates anxiety and fear in their minds. They are going from unstructured summertime to very structured school time.